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A girl I go to school with has a crush on me. (I'm a girl too). I have never had a relationship or any kind of sexual encounter with a girl, but I am kind of curious about it. Thing is, I'm not particularly interested in getting together with this girl on any long-term basis, I just want to experiment and have some fun. Would it be wrong of me to hook up with her? What about if I tell her I'm not interested in a relationship, and let her make the decision?..
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from hugnkiss (30-somethingfemale)
It's definitely good to be clear about your intentions (and it shows that you are a thoughtful, caring person to think of this in advance). She'd probably be fine with you experimenting. If you like it, you may want to do it again. ..
I know a lot of guys and girls who wouldn't mind just a hook up. But if she really really likes you, she may get her heart crushed and it might be better to hold off on experimenting for another time...
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from ScarlettO (30-somethingfemale)
It's doubtful that she'll be clearheaded to reject what is, esentially, a huge chunk of what she's been hoping for the whole time she has had a crush on you. She'll jump at the chance to show you the ropes, all the while expecting that she'll be able to charm you into a relationship or that you'll change your mind about wanting to be with her. So I'm afraid, m'dear, that you're going to have to be clear-headed enough for two. Don't sleep with her, not even if she begs you, unless there is a snowball's chance that you might want more than sex. If you are really keen on trying out some girl-on-girl action, find a girl who just wants a fling...
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from Carlos (40-somethingmale)
Does anyone in their late teens/early twenties really go into any relationship thinking "this is for the long term"?..
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Why not try to be fun and flirty and see where that takes you... If you don't develop deep feelings for this girl at some point, then will be the right time to deal with it, no ?..
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Carlos...
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