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I think all the other commenters got it right. This guy is very, very embarrassed and he did not handle it well...
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I would give him some major space. As in, don't contact him unless he makes the first move. Let him heal and move on with your life. ..
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As for your friend, since he is her brother that might be a touchy situation too. I would not tell her the story, she may feel you are attacking him. If..you still like him and she asks you could say you guys had a misunderstanding but you aren't holding it against him. In the meantime, he's made it clear he needs some space so you are giving it to him. Nuff said. ..
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I'd say move forward as if you guys are broken up...

Hi. I just read your comment to the other answer (weird text message) and it sounds like this guy is very immature. It might be awkward when you see his brother again, but just move on. The guy sounds kinda weird. It might even have been his first experience with sex (if he didn't know he'd be allergic to the condom!) and his embarrassment so overwhelming, that he has twisted the memory into something deplorable that he is distancing himself from...

WOAH, sounds to me like he's messed up, either that or completely embarassed about the way the night turned out when he went back to your place. Best thing to do is to leave it for the moment, you both probably said hurtful things at the heat of the moment, and he's obviously still sore. Leave him be, you'll no doubt meet him again (at a party of his brothers perhaps), and hopefully then clear the air...

He's probably embarrassed...no--he is DEFINITELY embarrassed. You will always be the girl he embarrassed himself with. That won't just go away. I suppose it's a man thing. If he was something special, you could pursue it further, try visiting him and talking but if it wasn't, leave it alone. He won't be coming back...

I agree, definitely a mixture of embarrassment and immaturity. He's obviously embarrassed about the incident and is probably associating you with it, maybe even blaming you in some stupid way so he doesn't have to deal with it. Male egos and all that. Sounds like you could do better to be honest. And I wouldn't worry about the facebook/msn things, the thing about chatting online is that you can't read body language or pick up on the things that are being left unsaid. It's a very literal form of communication. xxx..