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Big Crush > from questionable4 (teenfemale)5 answers
I am a freshman in high school and I have had a HUGE crush on this senior guy since the beginning of the year. Three issues: 1) I'm a freshman, 2) I'm friends with his freshman sister who is really sensitive about people liking her only for her brother, 3) He's gay...He's going to be leaving this year, and I like him sooo much.. Should I let him know or would that be betraying his sister? (Quick note-- He is NOT the reason I am friends with his sister) If I should let him know, how do I do that without making a fool of myself?..
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from hugnkiss (30-somethingfemale)
Well, darling, if he's out of the closet in high school -- then that means that he for sure, for real knows he doesn't even want to bother pretending that he likes girls. A lot of guys don't come out until college or later. If he's out now and you know he's homosexual, then you need to give it up. In college, I fell in love with my gay best friend too. And I wasted an awful lot of time cuddling on the couch watching Caberet with him, when hot straight guys asked me out. If he's gay, leave him alone. You aren't going to change him. And you know, you should be proud that he's discovered who he is so early in life...
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from JackOfHearts (20-somethingmale)
okay, let's see here -- ..
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issue #1.... alright, no huge deal; issue #2... sure, not too serious; issue #3... what the?? ..
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he's gay. that's too bad for you, but you're not going to change it, so there's really no point telling him. ..
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it may be a bit painful for now, but I think you should move on and find someone who can feel for you the way you feel for him...
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from bm9913 (teenfemale)
I really do not see your reason for tellign him...He is gay and so there is no future for the two of you...Nothing will result in you asking him out...He is not goign to switch who he likes or anything and so there is just no reason...If you confess your feelings, his sister will be hurt...Do you really want to risk losing a friend for a guy who will never return your feelings?..
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from cobo (30-somethingfemale)
Hey, maybe he can be your gay best friend! No harm in making an effort to befriend him. One of my gay boyfriends just told me he had a crush on me when we first met--and I had one on him. He wasn't out then, and I guess he just has an appreciation for the ladies. ..
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But realistically, any kind of romantic dating relationship won't be happening with your crush, but you can keep on crushing on how awesome he is while you two have fun together, and as a dude who goes for dudes, he may be able to provide helpful insights on your future crushes...
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from Angie (40-somethingfemale)
You like him so make him a friend ... and start directing those romantic thoughts you have towards someone that IS attainable .....Angie..
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