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I met a girl about 4/5 months ago in a night club, we kissed, and then she tracked me down through mutual friends. We have done all the going for drinks, films etc. We talk almost daily and get along. But when sober we only ever hold hands, oddly she rubs my fingers when we do. As soon as we go to a night club she is all over me. This leaves me really confused as to weather she actually likes me. Without sounding big headed she jumps at the chance to hang out when we can, it just seems like we are going no where...
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I recently found out she’s religious, of which I am fine with (I am not). She is going away soon for a month, these are the only reason i think could be stopping us. I just need to know where I stand without sounding like a total dork, but the most we have spoken out how we feel is saying we like each other alot...
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from cobo (30-somethingfemale)
Maybe during one of those times when she is all over you you can ask her what the two of you are up to, and if she'd like to go out one-on-one. She can't very well blow you off when she was in the middle of pawing you. It sounds like you two really like each other, so go for it...
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from shakira21 (20-somethingfemale)
Is she drunk when she's pawing you? Is she just really shy? Maybe she needs alcohol to build up the courage to be more affectionate. Are you affectionate with her? Do you wait for her to make the first move? Some guys are more comfortable with being affectionate in public, if she's not getting the vibes off you, maybe she's holding back on you too. Next time you meet, grab her and give her a very passionate kiss. Even religious women can do that. Show her that you like her....
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from hugnkiss (30-somethingfemale)
That's great that you like each other a lot. Yay!..
Have you heard the Mary Prankster song, "How come we never kiss when we're sober?" ..
Maybe, because she's religious, she doesn't want to go-all-the-way with you. And maybe she just likes to be all over you in a night club, because nothing major can happen there. Maybe she feels safer. I have no idea. Why not invite her over to stay in and watch movies, or have dinner and drink wine and kiss somewhere outside a club. She likes you, you like her -- where do you want this relationship to go? I think after 4 or 5 months to really like someone is great. Have you tried kissing her when you're sober? It sounds like you've let her be in control of everything: finding your number, asking you out, kissing you at the club. Make a move when you're on a date where the two of you are a lone and sober. See what happens. If she pushes you away, it would be fair to have a short talk about what's going on...
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from anonymous
You're the guy. Why haven't you jumped her yet? :p..
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from Raven (20-somethingmale)
I'm just gonna say that she's not very religious if she goes to clubs, gets drunk and makes out with guys...The religious thing could be an excuse for why she won't let you go farther...You've been with her too long for her to play childish games...Let her go...Better women await...
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