Why are you still with a woman who doesn't love you -- and worse, why are you trying to figure out how to change in order to earn her love? Dump this mercenary chick and find someone who loves you for you, and not for your wallet...

She TOLD you she's not in love with you?....
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Well aren't you lucky, before you make your wads of cash, you've got the answer that I'm sure many people (with money) wonder ... is it me and my wonderful personaltity that he/she loves or are they with me for my moolah???..
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Is there something I'm missing here cuz u don't seem to be surprised or upset that she doesn't love you by your concern about whether if you hit it big she might love you more?..
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If this is in fact a business transaction, what are u getting for your buck??..
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Angie..
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I'm the yin to Carlos' yang .....

In some countries that's considered the norm. In western civilization we now prefer love as the bond of choice, altho that hasn't seemed to be nearly as strong as first thought... my own experiences lead me to believe that many people mistake attraction and lust for love but that's another story altogether...
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Here is what you need to think about, most people fall in love with someone during their lifetime and if you marry this girl and then she falls in love with someone else, she'll leave you, take at least half of everything you own, half of everything you are going going to make for the foreseeable future and run off with the love of her life. She's told you all this too, after all she's only in it for the money........
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Ball's in your court...
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-Carlos..
Angie is my tennis partner...

I d not think a woman will love a man mre for the amount of money they make...She is either a gold digger or lookign to settle down with a good guy regardless of if she is in love or not...

Not that the wedding vows mean everything, but if you believe in the "for richer or poorer part," you should find someone who feels the same way...