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A coworker of mine just asked me out. He's had a bit of a crush on me, I...show more
think, for a couple of months now, and he finally got up the courage to ask me out. I like him a lot, but really only as a friend. I don't think there's any spark what-so-ever between us. BUT at the same time, the holidays are coming up and I really would like to be part of a couple for the holiday season. It's just more fun, yknow? So would it be awful and terrible of me to date him casually for a few months, even though I don't think it's gonna go anywhere? I mean, I wouldn't make him any promises or anything. I just want someone to have fun with and take to parties. Is that so very wrong? Or should I just resign myself to being single for xmas?..Vote:
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50%Go out w/him, as long as your intentions are clear
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I have a friend who is so negative that whenever she complains about her life,...show more
it's so clear to me that she is the one causing or perpetuating a lot of her problems. She can't meet a guy and will give a hundred reasons why it's all over for her because of her age and because the only guys who want her are dorks she has nothing in common with. When I do suggest things she can try, I already know that all I'm going to get is a stream of reasons why those suggestions won't work for her. It's like she just wants to remain where she is. At this point, what do I do? I kind of want to tell her in a gentle way that she has a hand in her own fate and she is talking herself out of many opportunities. I don't want to start a fight, and I don't know if it would ever get through to her, but I also don't want to just stand by and never try to be straight with her about my perspective on her problems, and don't want to hear her keep complaining about the same things if she's never going to do anything to change them. She also refuses to consider therapy, so that's out of the question...
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This Christmas will be my boyfriend's and I third one together, and I'm...show more
not sure what to do. We go to different colleges which are both on the east coast and about 3 hrs apart. He is originally from the west coast. The first Christmas we hadn't been dating that long, so he flew home and I stayed here. The second one I went back home with him and met and stayed with his family. When I was there, his Mom said that she had a "feeling he wouldn't come back next year" as it was only "fair" and we'd want to be together.....Obviously, I would love to spend the holiday together, but I would feel very guilty about him not spending it with his family as he sees them only once or twice a year. Also, my family doesn't do very much for the holidays to begin with. I've told him I don't mind what he does, though I really want him to stay since we don't get much time together being long distance anyways. He hasn't decided yet, but I know he'd probably stay if I asked him to...I just don't know if I should? There's not much compromise here as our families are very far apart...Vote:
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0%Tell him to go home
0%Let him decide
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a spinoff, what do you consider to be a dealbreaker in your l/t relationship?...show more
if your partner gained a lot of weight? lost a limb in an accident or became a paraplegic? if they went bald? IF they were burned and terribly disfigured? If you commit to someone and say for better or worse, shouldn't you stand by them even if bad stuff happens (sometimes through no fault of their own) and they change physically? not talking about personality things like becoming unfaithful or abusive, but just physical appearance changes. aren't they still the same person you fell in love with? has anyone here ever stayed with a person despite a radical change in their looks?..
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How soon do you think is too soon to move some stuff into your boyfriend's...show more
apartment if you're staying there 2-3 times a week? I've been seeing my boyfriend for a month and we spend a lot of time together, mostly at his house. it's getting annoying to have to take a huge bag with my clothes, makeup, shampoo and hair products, lotions etc. every time I want to stay over but of course I don't want him to think I'm "moving in". What do you all think?..
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I'm a single mom, and my kids have been having playdates with another neighborhood...show more
family. These kids' mom died a couple of years ago and they are being raised by their father. Well, over the course of the past few months, seeing this guy every week or two, and watching him with his kids (he's a great father), I've started to fall for him and I think the attraction is mutual. He and I seem to do a lot of flirting at the playdates. I'm a little worried about taking it any further though because I don't want the kids to get hurt in any way. CAn't help thinking about if we date and it doesn't work out, and how awkward that would be (our kids are still young enough that they really need to be chaperoned all of the time, so the father and I would continue to have lots of contact at least for a few years. Any advice? Should I hold off on pursuing him, or go for it and cross that bridge when I come to it?..Vote:
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I'm having a hard time. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years.
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we were together for 6 months, we almost broke up because he said he wasn't feeling in love with me and wasn't feeling fireworks. We took some time away from each other and after 3 weeks, he realized he did want to be with me. 4 months later said he was in love with me. He's been wonderful since. But lately, his adult daughter asked about that time and I told her. And ever since, I've been feeling sad and awful reliving that horrible time. I can't get it out of my head. What is wrong?..
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My girlfriend and I have a problem. We've only been seeing each other since...show more
the late spring (we both graduated from the same college and got jobs in our college town, and we hooked up right around graduation) and although it's exclusive, it's not that serious yet. However we want to spend the holidays together, but both of our families are asking us to come "home" - her parents live about 3 hours away and mine live about 4 hours in the other direction. So we couldn't really go to both. I'd love to have her come with me, and I know she wants me to come with her to her folks' but I don't want them to think the relationship is more serious than it is, you know? We don't want it to be like "meeting the parents." We just want to be together, esp at Christmas. Is there any solution besides just being separate for the holidays and waiting until next year, if we're still together, to go to each other's parents'?..
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Is it wrong of a friend who has feelings for another person to somewhat back...show more
away when that person gets into a relationship?..
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i have this girl im in love with but she seems ro be treating me worse and worse....show more
she has a bf now but tells me she wants me one min then treats me like dirt the next. i dont know if im wasting my time with her...Vote:
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67%What Should I Do?
33%Am I Being Stupid For Loveing?
67%What Should I Do?
33%Am I Being Stupid For Loveing?