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Dating Questions
from anonymous3 answersTwo weeks ago, I came out of a LTR which had lasted 2 and a half years. I had...show more
known for about a year that something was not quite right, and for the last 6 months that it was coming to an end and that the passion was dead. However, I didn't have to deal with it as I was living over 200 miles away. Ironically, when I moved back closer to my boyfriend, we ended our relationship mutually as it no longer felt right...He still wants to be friends, which is fine by me, but I have already had to tell him several times not to call me 'sweetie' and to stop touching me ie. his hand on my leg. It is difficult for both of us I know, because we went out for so long and we are used to being together, but he doesn't seem to understand that we need a little bit of space initially to get used to not being a couple...Now...my real question is about a different guy, someone who I have been friends with (and who I had a crush on) for about a year and a half. Just before I was about to break up with my boyfriend, he admitted that he had feelings for me. This didn't affect my decision (ie. I didn't hurry up the process to be with him)...However, I feel this guy is really special. With my last boyfriend there was no chemistry, and this guy makes me feel happy just being around. I really don't feel like I'm on the rebound as my last relationship was so lifeless...but I don't want to ruin things by rushing into another relationship, no matter how different it is. The problem is that we slept together a few days ago, and even though I KNOW it was very soon after my breakup it felt very right to do so. He asked me to be his girlfriend and I said yes, but I am keeping it quiet as I don't think it's fair on my ex (who may assume I left him for this guy, which I haven't). My new guy lives just over an hour's drive away, so we won't be seeing each other that often compared to my ex (who lives very close by).....Should I be feeling so guilty because I am so happy, so soon after leaving my ex? Should I ask my new guy to slow it down a bit? I don't FEEL like this is a rebound relationship, I feel like it will work, but what do you guys think?..
from anonymous3 answersI have been dating this guy for over 2 years. Things are very serious and we...show more
are even considering moving in together. He is a great guy in every aspect except one: He has never told me he loves me. This only leads me to believe he doesn't actually love me, and makes me wonder why I am wasting my time. He has told me on more than one occasion that.."love" hasn't worked out in his past relationships, so he is done with it...I'm confused why i should suffer these consequences and as time goes on, I only get more hurt. ....I do love him, and I feel like I have to hold back these emotions so he won't run away screaming. Most of the time I resent him for putting me in this bizarre emotional situation..... I know we should probably talk about this but, I don't know how i can say "WHY WON'T YOU LOVE ME?" without sounding like a needy lunatic...All other aspects of our relationship are amazing and I don't want to end it over one measly word, but I don't want to spend the rest of my life with this void. Any suggestions?..
from anonymous5 answersA guy that I've been chatting with online finally asked me out, but he asked...show more
me if I wanted to go to brunch on Sunday. Does this mean he's not interested enough in me to have a "real" nighttime date, or is he just being creative?..Vote:
from anonymous5 answersI'm seeing this guy and it's getting pretty serious, and I'd like...show more
to introduce him to my parents. the problem is, when I first started dating him I told them that he was 17 (I'm 16) but he's really 20, almost 21. Do I tell them? Or just hope they don't find out? Help!..
from anonymous4 answersA guy I just met online wanted to have email sex right away. I have to say, he...show more
seemed like he would be pretty good at it but I felt rather exposed. Granted, he wasn't someone who knew my name or number. But that's also the point: He didn't know my name and number or anything about me, for that matter. So is it strange I..felt obliged to let him know that the situation was making me feel too vulnerable too early on?..Vote:
from anonymous5 answersI had (long) been a friend with benefits to this woman who suddenly eloped an...show more
got married. (She and I were never going to be a "couple" but I was still taken off guard at the change of events.) Now, when I saw her last, she made some passes at me. I am still attracted to her but put a stop to her advances by explaining the situation is different now that she has a husband. Would you have done the same?..Vote:
from anonymous2 answersI met someone online and we decided to have a phone conversation to try and get...show more
to know each other better. However, more than being like an informal chat the discussion quickly turned into his grilling me with personal questions. I cut the conversation short but wonder whether anyone else has had that sort of situation and if so, how did they handle it? Did you mind opening your heart to a total stranger?..
from skilledeyes (20-somethingfemale)1 answerIve been dating this guy for the last month and we really hit it off. I just...show more
turned 23 and he told me he was 20. Well i just found out hes 19. He told me the reason he lied was bc he knew i wouldnt go out with a 19yr old. He was right, I wouldnt of even thought about it. Should I be bothered by the fact that im dating a 19yr old?..Vote:
