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from Rachez18 (20-somethingfemale)5 answers
Can you really be happy being single? I'm going to leave it short :) Just...show more
say what comes to mind...
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My boyfriend just told me that he wants to take our relationship to being nonmonogamous....show more
That is, he wants to see other people but he still wants to date me, too. What should I do? I really love him and would hate to give him up, even if that means sharing him.Of course I could date other guys too...
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from smutty99 (50+male)4 answers
I never thought of this before but, would you rather hurt or BE hurt? Its something...show more
to think about...............................................................................smutty99..
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from anonymous3 answers
Two weeks ago, I came out of a LTR which had lasted 2 and a half years. I had...show more
known for about a year that something was not quite right, and for the last 6 months that it was coming to an end and that the passion was dead. However, I didn't have to deal with it as I was living over 200 miles away. Ironically, when I moved back closer to my boyfriend, we ended our relationship mutually as it no longer felt right...He still wants to be friends, which is fine by me, but I have already had to tell him several times not to call me 'sweetie' and to stop touching me ie. his hand on my leg. It is difficult for both of us I know, because we went out for so long and we are used to being together, but he doesn't seem to understand that we need a little bit of space initially to get used to not being a couple...Now...my real question is about a different guy, someone who I have been friends with (and who I had a crush on) for about a year and a half. Just before I was about to break up with my boyfriend, he admitted that he had feelings for me. This didn't affect my decision (ie. I didn't hurry up the process to be with him)...However, I feel this guy is really special. With my last boyfriend there was no chemistry, and this guy makes me feel happy just being around. I really don't feel like I'm on the rebound as my last relationship was so lifeless...but I don't want to ruin things by rushing into another relationship, no matter how different it is. The problem is that we slept together a few days ago, and even though I KNOW it was very soon after my breakup it felt very right to do so. He asked me to be his girlfriend and I said yes, but I am keeping it quiet as I don't think it's fair on my ex (who may assume I left him for this guy, which I haven't). My new guy lives just over an hour's drive away, so we won't be seeing each other that often compared to my ex (who lives very close by).....Should I be feeling so guilty because I am so happy, so soon after leaving my ex? Should I ask my new guy to slow it down a bit? I don't FEEL like this is a rebound relationship, I feel like it will work, but what do you guys think?..
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Let's say you are sent an email through a dating site by someone you are...show more
not interested in. What's the best way to handle the situation -- to..not write back or to email a brief note explaining your stance?..Vote:
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33%Email a response
67%Ignore the note
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from anonymous4 answers
I recently had a lengthy IM conversation with this woman I met online through...show more
a dating site. It all seemed to go well until she never ended up contacting me again. I emailed her twice at the personal address she gave me and once via the site we met through. No word. I feel like I've been dumped by a (virtual) date. Is it normal to be taking it so hard?..Vote:
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from j3d0330 (30-somethingfemale)7 answers
I've been having a weekly booty call with a guy once a week for over 4 months...show more
now...Thought I was 'cool' enough to deal with a non-committed relationship but the past month or so i've been..calling/texting a few more times a week than the usual...We seem to get along well and the sex is good...I texted him friday night with an offer for dinner, chilling and a massage at my house...I mentioned in the text that he can rest assure i still am not looking for a commitment...He never called/texted back...*sigh*...This is the first weekend he didn't call me to hook up...I think he senses i'm trying to get closer and is perhaps backing away...I felt awful that he didn't contact me and thankfully went out with friends rather than staying at home feeling like a loser about it...My question is, do i have the right to ask him what's up?..Would calling him make me look desperate?..Does he have any obligation to call me if we aren't in any sort of committed relationship? I've never been in this situation before and not sure how to deal with it...I do enjoy our time together and would like it to continue just need to figure out a way to detach myself a bit more and realize it's just for sex... Any advice?..ahhhH!?..
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from bgirl (20-somethingfemale)8 answers
I am currently in a relationship with my boyfriend of four years. We were high...show more
school sweethearts and I am now in college...We went to the same college and last year lived together while attending school...However, he decided that school was not for him...He dropped out but continued to live with me for a good 6 months while unemployed until he finally moved back home (an hour away) and got a job...We'd done the long distance thing before during his first year of college and my last year of high school, so we figured it would be no problem to do it again.....It has worked well so far, but now that I don't see him nearly as often, I am finding that I don't really miss him as much as I thought I would...When I picture the future together, I honestly don't see him as the man I am standing next to at the altar or the one taking care of my kids...Now that I'm getting closer and closer to the real world with real responsibilities, I find it harder to believe he will step up to the plate and share them...I love him, care for him, and he makes me happy, and I know he absolutely adores me, but I just don't see a future and I sometimes I feel like I am settling... I also know it would absolutely crush him if I were to break it off, and I don't want to cause him pain.....The thing is, he doesn't have a clue that I feel this way...We've talked about marriage, careers, children and all aspects of the future with no problem...This is also my first real relationship and I know if I did break it off it would have to be a clean break, with no more contact and no 'staying friends.'..This part of it also panics me, and I don't want to stomp on his heart and it would pain me to cause him so much pain.....I do love him, and I do have a lot of fun with him when I see him, and he does makes me happy. I am really struggling with this decision...Sometimes I feel like the answer is clear but at the same time I absolutely cannot see myself doing it.....So my question is, what do I do?..Am I settling? Is this a valid reason to break up?..We have been together for so long I just don't know if that's something I am capable of doing...When I sit here and think about not being with him anymore, I get panicked because it is such a huge part of who I am and who I was for the past four years...But I feel equally as panicked when I think about the future, and I just don't know if he will make me happy.....Thanks for any advice...Sorry this is so long and personal (I'm new at this)...Vote:
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27%Stick it out until school is over
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from cutiepatootie (teenfemale)4 answers
So i dated this guy for 3 months, not in a relationship. It bothered me so I...show more
asked him about it. He said well im going to ask you out soon, he never did.. He was kind of flaky when we made plans he would sometimes blow them off but not a lot a lot But he was always so sweet when we did and funny. He would take me around his friends too and show affection. I never had sex with him either so that's not the case here. Well anyway we where suppose to hang out one night.. but he flaked off and never said sorry i couldn't hang out today or anything but i was looking at his comments and some girl said "hey sorry, i can't hang out tonight with you guys.. i have to clean" or something like that. And well he logged into AIM at 3:00 AM in the morning.. and said hey i have something to tell you which you probably won't like.. Then he said "Now's not a good time for me to have a girlfriend.."..This is after the weekend I almost lost my virginity too him.. but he said no, I dont want you to loose it like this..I want your first time to be special (we where both drunk) So then after all that, he still talks to me sometimes.. He randomly Instant messages me maybe 3 times a week.. at most.. ..But sometimes he is a straight up jerk when he talks to me.. Like today he instant messaged me saying "What is up with your picture" and..I said what are you talking about.. he said "no offense but the weird looking one" and then he said "im just watching out for you.."..I don't get it? He's confusing.. help me out here.. what does this sound like to you?..
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