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from MIssa (20-somethingfemale)4 answers
So me and the guy i was seeing broke up about a month and half ago. We had a...show more
pretty clean break-up and it was actually probably the "nicest" breakup to be a part of...We agreed to be friends, and over the past month and a half there has been some talk here and there through facebook messages, and i even got some weird texts from him here and there but nothing like "talking."..I was thinking of sending him an im tonight and seeing if we could have a decent conversation, but i didn't know if maybe it was still too soon to try the friend thing??..Vote:
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from GiannaMay (20-somethingfemale)4 answers
I've been in a four-year relationship with my beau. When we're together,...show more
things are great. He leaves breakfast by the bed for me when he works early, and calls to ask what I'd like him to pick up for dinner when he works late. He works terrible hours, 6 days a week so I do my best to make his off time as relaxing as possible. I help him manage his time and remind him of things he wanted to do so he can accomplish what he needs to and some of the things he wants to in the sparse free time he gets. He keeps me focused on what I need to be doing, as well. We live pretty harmoniously and I go out of my way to alleviate any of his stress that I can. I couldn't be happier with the way he treats me, my friends and family, and the comfort I feel around his friends and family. However.....We just celebrated 4 years of being together and I sensed some hesitation in him. I asked what he meant when he said he loved me and he couldn't answer me. He said he didn't know...I was in a panic but tried not to show how much his words upset me and the weekend passed without any other incidents. But it makes me wonder. I know he was -severely- damaged in his last relationship, but shouldn't he know after 4 years what kind of love he has for me? It has me concerned that maybe he loves me the same as he loves his friends or family, but doesn't have an individual love for me that should be only mine.....I know I love him that way, and I'm not sure what I should do...4 years is a lot to throw away, but I'm not sure how much longer I'll have to wait..for him to love me the way I love him. I'm afraid that come another four years, he'll have decided that he doesn't love me as strongly as I'd like him to and I'm just not sure I can start over, or if I can even wait so long, knowing that he loves me, but not knowing how.....Right now, I guess things are okay, because I'm not looking to get married or have children and I'm working on my career, but I can't deny the nagging worry that when I finally get an answer from him, I will feel like I have wasted years on someone I thought would be around forever.....What should I do?..
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from amlandutta (20-somethingmale)3 answers
i had a relation with my girlfrnd since last 1 and 1/2 yrs, suddenly she broke...show more
up and told me that she didnt like my family conditions and also she didnt love me anymore becoz she identified that her feelings is nothing but a affection kind of things or just a infatuation, anyway its not a love, but she was my first love and still i didnt able to understand why she have made this decision and left me behind all alone?? shall i wait for the girl?? as i have tried a lot but didnt able to forgot her.....will i able to forget her??..did she love me becoz i didnt find anything wrong in this past yrs...what she is telling is it true??..
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from anonymous5 answers
I think I have to break up with my girlfriend. Trouble is, I'm so nervous...show more
about seeing her in person to do it. Is it really awful and terrible to break things off over the phone, or in an email? We've only been together about three months, if that makes any difference. My rationale is that she won't want to see/be seen by me if she's upset and crying. And if she's not that upset, then it shouldn't make a difference anyway. Am I being a cad? Should I just suck it up and do it face to face?..Vote:
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78%Yes, do it face to face, it's the decent thing
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11%Tell her over the phone but offer to see her if she wants to talk things over
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from anonymous4 answers
One of my best friends was just dumped by this guy who I think is an absolute...show more
jerk. She is wrecked by this experience -- can't stop crying, pining for him -- and it's all I can do to not tell her my true thoughts about this person. My only concern in doing so is that if they get back together again, my words would come back to haunt me and ruin our friendship. So, the jury's out. Should I:..Vote:
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25%suck it up and say nothing
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from nnr3334 (20-somethingfemale)6 answers
Dumped after 3 years.
I met him when I was a freshman in college. I actually...show more
had a boyfriend at the time, but things were going nowhere with that one and I ended the relationship. That whole time, I met a new guy that was in a few of my classes. I found him so attractive and he felt the same towards me. After a few months of hanging out, he asked me out. I said yes. We had some ups and downs in the relationship, but I loved him so much. I never saw myself marrying anyone I dated, until I met him. I was convinced he would be the man I married. Last thursday, he comes over to my apartment (which by the way, his apartment is in the next row at my apartment complex). He comes over, and I made him dinner. About an hour after, he said he had to talk to me about something. "I just think that your feelings for me are a lot stronger than my feelings are for you at this point." Basically, I was dumped. One sentence and my world came absolutely CRASHING down. We had broken up and got back together about 3 times before this. He gets stressed/overwhelmed about things in his life and feels like he needs to eliminate something.. which usually it was me. (Even his sister noticed this pattern) But we had always gotten back together. This time, I think, is different. I think it really is the end. But I can't stop the feeling of wanting him back so desperately and wanting him in my life and wanting to be with me and love me back. I haven't had a single day that I've woken up and not bawled my eyes out all morning...I just don't know what to do. I feel like I'm not myself without him. I can't stop crying at every random moment in the day. I just feel like my world came crashing down. He took everything away from me and my emotions, and he took them by force. Not a warning at all. He says he still cares about me and is there for me to help me through this if I need him. He's still being so nice to me and it just kills me that he doesn't feel the same way about me. It makes me sad knowing he never had any intention of marrying me. I feel like I'll never meet someone as amazing as he is. Anyone, anyone at all, have ANY advice that will help me through this? He's all I've known for 3 years now.. I just don't know how to be single anymore.. and don't want to be, for that matter. I feel so incredibly alone without him. Please, anyone help. :(..
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from MIssa (20-somethingfemale)5 answers
I had been seeing this guy for a few month's. It seemed like things were...show more
going really well...In the beginning he would call me or we would talk online for literally like 4-5 hours at a time, we had so much in common, and conversation just flowed...Towards the end, he started being a lot more distant, and we wouldn't talk as much but we still had a great chemistry...Anyways, about 3 weeks ago, i went to visit him and he told me things fell through with his family and he was no longer moving out to live over towards me...He said he didn't want to do the long-distance thing because his last relationship that was long distance he was cheated on...I told him i understood and we ended on a good note it seemed, and we said we would be friends...He lives an hour away, and we havent really talked since, but lately i have really missed him, and wish that i would have said to him how much i actually cared about him the night we broke things off...I really care about him, but feel it's too soon to try to talk with him just as friends since my feelings are so strong, but yet i still don't feel like i have that closure...Has anyone felt this way before? What is your advice on the best thing to do?..
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from javajunkie37 (teenfemale)7 answers
Hey everyone. So I told you all about the guy that wouldn't give up. Well...show more
the night before last he decided to see just how much I really cared about him, by having people call me and text me that he had killed himself over me. I didn't know what to do so I called the sheriff and gave them his address and the numbers of the people involved. They got in a lot of trouble, and none of them have bothered me since. But for some reason now I feel super guilty like I shouldn't have that. Was I in the wrong?..
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from anonymous5 answers
What's the best way to get over being dumped?show more
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20%go out and party and have a good time
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0%lay low and indulge yourself in feeling blue for a while
0%get revenge on the person who broke your heart
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