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from Angie (40-somethingfemale)4 answers

Sparked by another question about finding out ur partner is cheating on you thru...show more

reading an email or text ... it got me thinking ... We all know how it's an invasion of privacy to read emails and the like, but it seems that so many people do it...Knowing that there's a remote possibility that ur partner might read it, either mistakenly or intentionally ... why would someone be so freakin' stupid as to incriminate themselves in an email like that?..In some small way is it their way of sabotoging the relationship?..Are they, down deep, hoping to be caught?..

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from anonymous5 answers

Have you ever been dumped by someone who you then went out with again only so...show more

as to be able to dump him/her back?..

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from pienthuiast (teenfemale)4 answers

I'm kissing this boy who doesn't seem as keen as I am. He's the...show more

nicest person, but conversation has been a little dead recently. Last weekend, being fed-up with the situation, I asked him was I just wasting my time, and he was shocked and explained his lack of communication, (he had a few hospital appointments, nothing serious), and it all went back to normal for a while. I've invited him to my grad ball next week, but he didn't invite me to his, he brought a friend instead, (we went to single-sex schools). I don't know whether to dump him now, before the grad, or hang on. The week after I'm off to college, and I'll only be home for the weekends. I really like him, and we have FANTASTIC chemistry, but is it all just too much effort than it's worth?..

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from anonymous5 answers

Me and my boyfriend recently broke up and he was very vague about why. One week...show more

later he began dating a new girl...A week after, he began texting me about how much he misses and loves me...I am so confused! What do you think this means?..Should I try to go back to him?..

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from queenbee (20-somethingfemale)3 answers

When dealing with your love problems, which friends do you prefer to run to?...show more

The friend who will give you the honest truth for your own good, or the listener friend who will just sit there and watch you cry and suffer?..

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from anonymous4 answers

I think my boyfriend is about to dump me. we've only been going out a couple...show more

of months but things have really cooled off between us in the past week or so. I am not so heartbroken about losing him, but I'm really scared that I am going to be embarrassed and hurt that he's broken things off. I am thinking about breaking up with him before he can leave me - a preemptive strike, I guess you'd call it. Any reason why I shouldn't ? I just feel panicked at the thought of being broken up with (previously I have done all the breaking up in my relationships)..

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My boyfriend dumped me for no reason at all! I mean one day he is telling me...show more

he loves me, and acting all cute and lovey dovey, and then the next morning he calls says "hey, we are done"..and that was it...He will not answer my calls or texts or anything! WTf?..

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from PrinceOfSpades (20-somethingmale)7 answers

So recently, after a two and a half year relationship, my girlfriend's best...show more

friend told me I was being cheated on. I had already given her a second chance--two months into the relationship she'd made out with another guy--and according to the friend, there was an ongoing relationship with this other guy. I'd met him--he was a family friend of hers. I had voiced my misgivings on more than one occasion, each time being met with anger and indignation at being accused of something like that. Finally, her friend gives me the validation I've feared for so long. My now ex-girlfriend denies the entire thing, sticking to her guns and staying angry that I've accused her of anything. Still, sounds clear cut, right? Wrong. Turns out this "best friend" of my ex has had a thing for me for a long time, and she's chosen the weeks since the breakup to come forward with it. So now my question is...Did she make it all up?..

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from bm9913 (teenfemale)2 answers

Do you think you could have sex with someone you were about to break up with?show more

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from anonymous5 answers

I'm in the early stages of a relationship, and my girlfriend (?) is having...show more

serious difficulties genuinely committing to it. She says it's because of the very intense previous relationships/breakups that she's had. Her feelings about our relationship really change on a daily, sometimes hourly, basis, and I'm afraid I'm approaching my own emotional limits in this regard...