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Marriage Questions
from anonymous4 answersMy husband has a friend who in my opinion is a creep and loser (has done and...show more
still does so many drugs that he seems/speaks like he's perpetually addled). They don't get together..too often but when they do, they act like idiots. Like, our window blinds somehow got broken when he came to visit, which makes me reluctant to have him stay with us again. Do I have to pretend to like this guy? Can I veto him staying at our place again? I think my man already knows my feelings about the friend. I'm trying to see it from his side too, I can certainly act like a goof with some of my friends, but for the most part he likes all of them...
from anonymous8 answersOK. My boyfriend and I were invited to a fancy dinner by his boss and boss's...show more
wife. Wife's 2 boys were there too (they re 19 and 22). Other business associates were at same dinner. My bf is a corporate executive in his 50s. The 22 year old son mentioned this restaurant in Little Tokyo that the waitresses dress as "Lolita Maids." My bf says "what's the number, where is this place!" I turn my head looking incredulously at my boyfriend for one - saying something so immature amongst his executive peers. Also, I felt it made me look like a fool sitting next to a boyfriend who would disrespect me that way. His boss even made a joke saying "you are not scoring any points with your girlfriend." I said "No, he's not" but I just smiled for the moment not wanting to make a big deal. ....My bf has always treated me really well. But once in a while he says some weird things like this. I know he is faithful to me and does not have a wandering eye at all. So I think it was some quirky way of posturing for "the boys". ....Question is, I'm angry about it but I don't know even how to address it. I don't like those types of comments made to me, or in front of me to others. But I'm afraid he'll think I'm being petty if I bring it up. Is this my problem where I don't have enough of a sense of humor to just laugh this off? Am I making a big deal out of nothing?..
from anonymous5 answersi think I am just not a very affectionate person. I'm married, and I love...show more
my husband, but I don't particularly enjoy kissing or cuddling. Sex is ok once in a while, but it's the day to day stuff that gets me. he always seems to want to kiss me or hug me or put his hand on my arm, and it's almost like his very touch annoys me. what do i do? do you think this is indicative of some other problem? i have felt the same way in previous relationships, i just don't like to be touched very much. is this weird, or normal?..Vote:
from anonymous3 answersDo you think it's possible for a married couple to live in two very different,...show more
very far apart places (together-- I mean moving from one place to the other together)? I'm talking about, living half of each year in one place, the other half of each year in the other. We met in one city, and moved to the other (on another continent!), but it's beginning to seem like two cities might be the only solution for my husband and I. Both of us have our reasons that we really need to be in our respective places, having a lot to do with our respective best friends and family living in or near those places. Please weigh in if you have any experience in this type of situation! Thanks...
from anonymous8 answersI suspect my husband of having a crush on one of our friends! I know that doesn't...show more
mean he would really cheat on me, but when I try to call him on it he denies it. Is this something I should just let die? Or should I keep bugging him so he's not so comfortable with his little crush!?..Vote:
from GothTart (20-somethingfemale)4 answersOne of my friends announced at a party this past weekend that she and her boyfriend...show more
of two months - yup, that's two, 2, as in one more than one - are getting married. NEXT month. I like the guy just fine, but I think it's too soon. I don't think they know each other well enough, and I just have a bad feeling about this. Should I tell her? And if so, how can I do so gently and not piss her off or seem like it's just sour grapes? Ahhhh! What do I do?..Vote:
