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Ladies: if you found porn on the computer you share with your husband or serious...show more
boyfriend, what would you do?..
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from runningweasel (teenfemale)3 answers
Okay, I'm going to call this guy my stepfather, simply because it's...show more
an easier title. No, he and my mom aren't technically married, but he lives with us. I have a sort of love/hate relationship with him because we have the same sense of humour, and yet he's so arrogant and self righteous that it really drives me mad. Anyway.....What he did with his daughter is, (she's in her 30s with a family now) whenever she would bring..guy home to meet him, he would tell her (not in front of the guy, obviously) that he's not good enough/ he's not the one she'd marry. She would get angry, yell at him, telling him he was wrong, and then, as it turned out, he was right. Call me what you will, but, I think that's psycho-manipulative. If a kid is told this by their parents, they might outwardly rebel, but really, they take it to heart and it can sabotage the relationship. Now, this might not be the case with her, but it's a valid argument, isn't it?..Well, he's started doing it to me. Given, he never said anything about my ex until after we broke up, but now he's telling me things like "Oh, you say you love him now, but in 6 months you'll have a new guy." The thing is -- my boyfriend and I are talking about getting engaged next year, and married the next. (We've allotted this amount of time to make sure things work before we make any drastic moves. Plus, by then we'll be 21+ (he's less than a year older than I am) and in a place where we can be more sure-footed about a commitment like this. I know I'm bound to make mistakes, and that's why we're trying to be smart about this...I suppose my question is -- how can I keep him from "getting to me"? I want to make it clear that I'm not rebelling -- I'm not yelling at him and saying "You're wrong! We're IN LOVE *whine whine*" Usually, I'll just shrug and say "Okay, but I'll let my love life play out for itself and not according to you."..What should/shouldn't I do?....I should also mention that he was married at 19. Do with that information what you will...
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Do you think it is possible for an open relationship to function over the long-term?...show more
How do you overcome jealousy?..
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from nzaads (20-somethingfemale)5 answers
I've been dating this amazing guy for 2 months. We've been seeing each...show more
other practically everyday and just really enjoying each other's company...He asked me to be his gf and told me he loves me practically 2-3 weeks after we met. Since then, I've met his parents and he's met mine...He seems to be very serious and every now and then he'll bring up marriage or he'll talk of our future together...We're seniors in college so the "what's next?" conversation is inevitable. Any plans he ever mentions always involve me...He's used the word wife a couple of times...It feels great but how seriously can I take what he says? Thus far, he has given me absolutely no reason to doubt him (no unanswered phone calls, strange/secretive behavior). Any advice? Thank you =)..Vote:
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from anonymous4 answers
Aaarghhh!!! My husband and I are both sick with the flu or a cold, and for a...show more
week or so now we've been dragging around the house. He usually works outside the home but he's been staying home to recover. I am a housewife (we have two kids too), but of course if I stopped working everything would grind to a halt...we wouldn't eat dinner, the dishes wouldn't get washed, we would have no clean clothes to wear, the kids would not get to school, ect. But it is so unfair...we are both equally sick and yet he gets to lie around watching game shows and surfing the net on his laptop while it's business as usual for me. is it wrong of me to be so resentful? or do i just have to suck it up and power through?..
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from anonymous3 answers
My boyfriend is nine years older than me, and we plan on getting married. No...show more
one can tell about the age difference because it doesn't look too obvious...Should I tell my parents and my friends before the wedding?..Vote:
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I think my fiance is getting cold feet. We're supposed to get married in...show more
the spring, so I'm busy planning the wedding, but whenever I ask him to help me he finds an excuse or avoids it somehow. He seems so uninterested in the details - the cake, the band, the invitations, everything. i am doing it all myself. Do you think this is just b/c hes a guy and doesn't care about stuff like that, or is it a case of cold feet?..Vote:
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