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Marriage Questions
from katieanddanny (20-somethingfemale)3 answersSaturday night my boyfriend and I are in bed kind of in the middle of being intimate...show more
(at that point we were only kissing) and he tells me he wants me to be his wife, then asks me "will you be my wife?" of course I said yes now I know that its wasn't THE actual proposal but it was just so nice to hear and later on I asked him if he was being serious or if that was just a "in the heat of the moment" thing and he said he was serious...BTW...he's 30 so I highly doubt he was just saying that to say it and we are kind of trying to get pregnant (we're not doing everything to get pregnant but we're not protecting it at all and we'd be ecstatic to have a child together)....When I asked him if he was serious we weren't being intimate or anything and then later on in the night when we were laying down he said that he again that he was serious. We thought I was pregnant last month, the baby would have been due in May and we had agreed on getting married next in Oct. 2009. So we kind of planned it before he even asked me that night.....What do you guys think about it?..Vote:
from anonymous1 answerNot long ago I heard something on the radio about a guy who's been married...show more
to his wife for 38 years and he said he was still as infatuated as ever...my first immediate thought was "B.S.!" I mean, you can be in love, and love the person as much as ever, after that amount of time, but infatuation? That's not how relationships work, you know? You lose the infatuation stage, because you can't function that like that all the time, and you wouldn't want to, and then you eventually get comfortable with each other, and that's a different kind of love but it sure ain't the same as infatuation. I think that anyone who says that infatuation w/their SO is still going strong after 38 months, let alone 38 years, is either lying or delusional. what do you say?..
from ScarlettO (30-somethingfemale)2 answersMarrieds/LTR couples, what was the last argument you had about? I mean a real,...show more
knock-down drag-out, not-talking-to-each-other, door-slamming, going-to-bed-angry argument, not just a spat over whose turn it is to walk the dog. How did you resolve it?..
from anonymous7 answersMy fiancee and I are planning our wedding, and already she is getting out of...show more
hand in terms of the cost. Her parents are not in the picture, and we'll be paying for the whole thing ourselves. Unless we get into major debt (which with the economy the way it is I am really unwilling to do, plus we will need money to start a family) we are not able to afford very much, but she has these grandiose dreams of having elaborate food and all-night open bar and flowers up the yazoo and a really super expensive dress and all that jazz. how do I tell her without bursting her bubble that we cannot afford the wedding of her dreams?..
from anonymous5 answersAlright...am I being rediculous or what? The other day, I was using my boyfriends...show more
computer that he normally only uses. I went to Amazon to look up a book. You know that Amazon uses "cookies" that will show examples of a very recent search near the top of the page. If you recently searched for tennis rackets, lets say, you will see several tennis rackets the next time you go to Amazon (try it - I did). Well... I went to Amazon and there were engagement rings across the page! ....Am I jumping way over into a humongous conclusion/assumption. Or do you think he's been brousing engagement rings? I mean, I'm his only girlfriend, and last week he also sort of slipped and told me his new lawyer also handles pre-nups. ....Am I being way too presumptive?..
