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from anonymous2 answersI'm a freshman in college and planning on going home for Thanksgiving, the...show more
first time I've gone home since school started. Now, right before the semester started I broke up with my girlfriend of five months. We'd been friends all through highschool and started dating spring of senior year, we decided that we didn't want to do a long-distance thing and that it wasn't really that serious. We both wanted to play the field at college too. we parted well, she actually said that it was just a senior-year fling, to have some fun at prom and during the summer before we went our separate ways. We've kept in touch over facebook and so on, but pretty casually, we've both been busy. so now i'm going home and i know she'll be home too, so should I contact her over break? I would LOVE to see her but the same situation applies, I don't want to get seriously involved. I just want to see her and see how she is and hang out. Would that be unfair or a mistake, do you think? Or could we see each other and then go our separate ways again, no harm done?..Vote:
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100%you should definitely call her, just make your intentions clear
0%no, it's better not to see each other if you don't want to start up again
from FredsFeet (40-somethingfemale)5 answersWhy would a 48 yr old man, who is in a relationship (on and off for 12 years)...show more
still act like a teenager? We are talking mowhawk, tatoos, surfer dude clothes, and his ONLY hobbies are driving his hot rod and looking at women? AND - the big question. What do I do? I really thought I loved him until I recently realized the man is a perennial 17 year old, and I am wanting more than to talk about cars and women> I mean really. What is up with that?!..
from anonymous4 answersI'm having a hard time. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years.
When...show more
we were together for 6 months, we almost broke up because he said he wasn't feeling in love with me and wasn't feeling fireworks. We took some time away from each other and after 3 weeks, he realized he did want to be with me. 4 months later said he was in love with me. He's been wonderful since. But lately, his adult daughter asked about that time and I told her. And ever since, I've been feeling sad and awful reliving that horrible time. I can't get it out of my head. What is wrong?..
from runningweasel (teenfemale)3 answersOkay, I'm going to call this guy my stepfather, simply because it's...show more
an easier title. No, he and my mom aren't technically married, but he lives with us. I have a sort of love/hate relationship with him because we have the same sense of humour, and yet he's so arrogant and self righteous that it really drives me mad. Anyway.....What he did with his daughter is, (she's in her 30s with a family now) whenever she would bring..guy home to meet him, he would tell her (not in front of the guy, obviously) that he's not good enough/ he's not the one she'd marry. She would get angry, yell at him, telling him he was wrong, and then, as it turned out, he was right. Call me what you will, but, I think that's psycho-manipulative. If a kid is told this by their parents, they might outwardly rebel, but really, they take it to heart and it can sabotage the relationship. Now, this might not be the case with her, but it's a valid argument, isn't it?..Well, he's started doing it to me. Given, he never said anything about my ex until after we broke up, but now he's telling me things like "Oh, you say you love him now, but in 6 months you'll have a new guy." The thing is -- my boyfriend and I are talking about getting engaged next year, and married the next. (We've allotted this amount of time to make sure things work before we make any drastic moves. Plus, by then we'll be 21+ (he's less than a year older than I am) and in a place where we can be more sure-footed about a commitment like this. I know I'm bound to make mistakes, and that's why we're trying to be smart about this...I suppose my question is -- how can I keep him from "getting to me"? I want to make it clear that I'm not rebelling -- I'm not yelling at him and saying "You're wrong! We're IN LOVE *whine whine*" Usually, I'll just shrug and say "Okay, but I'll let my love life play out for itself and not according to you."..What should/shouldn't I do?....I should also mention that he was married at 19. Do with that information what you will...
from anonymous2 answersMy parents' thirtieth wedding anniversary is coming up soon. I have no idea...show more
what to get them! I'd like to get them something really meaningful, but I'm pretty broke and they have everythign they could ever want. Any suggestions?..
