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from anonymous2 answersOMG I am so embarrased. I went to a party last night and got really, really drunk,...show more
and told my crush in no uncertain terms what I wanted to do to him, what I wanted him to do to me, etc. He turned me down, of course, but now what do I do? Is there any way to save face? Should I apologize or just let it blow over?..
from anonymous4 answersEver since I joined Facebook about six months ago, a bunch of people from h.s....show more
and college have found me and friended me, which is fine - but a lot of them are now really chatty and even want to meet up. I'm not talking about old friends, but more old acquaintaces - people who dated my friends, or just people I had a class with. It's been 10+ yrs since I've even thought of these folks, and w/some of them we have nothign in common except where we went to school and that we live in the same city now. Is there a polite way to tell people, hey, it's great to hear from you, i'm happy to be your facebook friend, but I don't really have time to be your friend IRL just b/c we went to school together. ? Or am I obliged to be friendly, and get together w/them and stuff, just because I'm friends w/them on facebook? How do I negotiate this?..
from anonymous4 answersI find it really hard to make friends. I don't drink much and don't...show more
go out to bars. My job is at a small company, so there arent' any opportunites to meet people there. I'm really shy and it's hard for me to go out and join groups or do activities where I could meet people. Any advice for how I can meet some like-minded folks w/o sticking my neck out there too much?..
from GothTart (20-somethingfemale)1 answerDo you believe that people can change -- I mean, totally reform themselves? Or...show more
are they just different on the surface, and any slight crack will reveal their true self? I'm not necessarily talking about cheaters, but any "vice" or predilection, can it be changed? Can alcoholics really recover? Can habitual gamblers stop gambling? Can people involved with gangs and drugs straighten up and lead a virtuous life? etc.?..
from anonymous1 answerYears ago I dated a woman briefly, on and off. It never got terribly serious,...show more
she was afraid of committment and we were both young. But I fell madly in love with her and have never forgotten her. She's kind of the one that got away, kwim? Periodically I look her up on Google or Facebook but she has a really common name (like "Mary Smith" or similar) and it's hard to find her for sure. Prolly good, b/c every time I got back together w/her in the past or hooked up with her it never worked out and just ruined whatever relationship I was in at the time. OK, so for a couple - five years now I've been mostly free of her ghost, until last night. I had this long involved detailed dream about her, in which I was explaining everything about how I've felt, and how much it hurt that we never worked stuff out, and we got back together in the dream. It was very cathartic and at the same time satisfying, bc it was like we had the decent relatoinship finally that we could never have IRL. But the dream brought everything right back up again, and I wonder, will I ever forget her? Get over her? or am I going to be haunted by this for hte rest of my life? Should I try to find her? Reconcile? I am thrown right back into the thick of it and I don't know what to do. What do you think?..
