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from anonymous4 answersI find it really hard to make friends. I don't drink much and don't...show more
go out to bars. My job is at a small company, so there arent' any opportunites to meet people there. I'm really shy and it's hard for me to go out and join groups or do activities where I could meet people. Any advice for how I can meet some like-minded folks w/o sticking my neck out there too much?..
from GothTart (20-somethingfemale)1 answerDo you believe that people can change -- I mean, totally reform themselves? Or...show more
are they just different on the surface, and any slight crack will reveal their true self? I'm not necessarily talking about cheaters, but any "vice" or predilection, can it be changed? Can alcoholics really recover? Can habitual gamblers stop gambling? Can people involved with gangs and drugs straighten up and lead a virtuous life? etc.?..
from anonymous1 answerYears ago I dated a woman briefly, on and off. It never got terribly serious,...show more
she was afraid of committment and we were both young. But I fell madly in love with her and have never forgotten her. She's kind of the one that got away, kwim? Periodically I look her up on Google or Facebook but she has a really common name (like "Mary Smith" or similar) and it's hard to find her for sure. Prolly good, b/c every time I got back together w/her in the past or hooked up with her it never worked out and just ruined whatever relationship I was in at the time. OK, so for a couple - five years now I've been mostly free of her ghost, until last night. I had this long involved detailed dream about her, in which I was explaining everything about how I've felt, and how much it hurt that we never worked stuff out, and we got back together in the dream. It was very cathartic and at the same time satisfying, bc it was like we had the decent relatoinship finally that we could never have IRL. But the dream brought everything right back up again, and I wonder, will I ever forget her? Get over her? or am I going to be haunted by this for hte rest of my life? Should I try to find her? Reconcile? I am thrown right back into the thick of it and I don't know what to do. What do you think?..
from anonymous2 answersMy name was the only one put on a project I played only a very small part in...show more
producing, and at first I didn't mind so much but the project is getting more and more attention, a lot of it negative, and unfairly directed at me for aspects I had no control over, or which were changed after my involvement. Is it fair to ask for my name to be removed from this? I just don't need the extra stress that all this flack is causing...
from athalia7 (20-somethingfemale)2 answersLast month I was working for a company and doing my job I got hurt. Where I live...show more
we get compensated for work injuries and time lost. My friend who was my boss lied to the compensation board about how I got hurt. Now Im not getting paid and my back hurts all the time. But the worst part of it is that I have lost one of my best friends and my friends have also feel arkward because they feel more loyalty to me then her. I want to tell her off, or even report her to the labour board. Where do I cross the line?..Vote:
from anonymous2 answersHelp, I just found out that my friend's new boyfriend is trouble, and i...show more
mean big trouble. My cousin (who goes to a different school) told me that this guy has been arrested for assault on a girl who was his girlfriend at the time! Now he's dating my friend. I am sure she doesn't know. What do I do? I know I have to tell her but I do NOT want her to go back and tell him, because to be honest I'm kind of scared of him now...I'm also a little scared that she won't believe me. Is there some way I can get proof before I tell her? Any advice would be really appreciated! Thanks!..
