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Big Crush > from anonymous2 answers
I can't stop thinking about my ex boyfriend. It's made extra lame by the fact that I have a really lovely boyfriend now who is at least ten times better than my ex, but for some reason I still find myself attracted to the ex. I've even started seeking out people like him (he was a skinhead, and no, not the racist kind) just to be around the kind of person he was. I feel like I'm somehow mentally cheating on my current boyfriend, but at the same time I feel like I want something different from him. Talking to my ex again is completely out of the question (believe me, I've tried. He wants nothing to do with me anymore.) How do I finally get over this awful ex?..
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from hugnkiss (30-somethingfemale)
There are lots of guys that are better for you than a bad ex -- but it's hard to explain why you don't like them -- or don't like them as much as the boy who was nothing but bad for you...
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But, it doesn't sound like you really like or want to be with the perfectly good boyfriend. Break up with him. And find someone you want to be with. Someone who is not just 10 times better than the ex -- but someone YOU LIKE 10 times better than the ex...
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from cobo (30-somethingfemale)
You will never have the same relationship again that you had with your ex, and that's a good thing. There's a reason (or several, or many) that you two are no longer together. What is it that you miss? If it's just generally the ex that you miss, you'll get over that, the less contact you have with him, over time. Was there something in your relationship back then that your current relationship is lacking now? Maybe you can work on that aspect of your relationship now. It's hard to say without knowing more about the situation...
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