Here's that question

This is a very important moment in your life, a trial of sorts, how well you do here will be indicative of your level of happiness for many years to come. ..
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You know you are attracted to this guy, and there is sizzle, yet long term you KNOW nothing would come of it (you KNOW this, right?), and back home you have this so called amazing guy who treats you like a princess but doesn't make you blood boil, and so you have to choose, the quiet suburban life, or the hot sizzle of downtown. Are you ready to settle down?..
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In these moments It always helps me to project myself into the future to ask myself where I want to be in a few years, and I suggest you do the same. Do you want to be settled and fluffy, or hot and bothered. The choice is yours. The only bit of advice I can offer you is that happiness, true happiness can only be achieved when you're mind body and soul are rowing in the same direction, whatever that direction may be...
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Good Luck..
-Carlos..

It's normal to be attracted to other people - love is a choice, you choose to stay or not, with the love you have, you choose to remember why you love them and fall in love again..

You are always going to be tempted, but just imagine if it was your boyfriend that had this hot co-worker that he just wanted to jump on at work. Hopefully, that will make you want to hold on to your boyfriend a little tighter...

The more you tell yourself that the other guy is a bad idea, the more you're going to entice yourself towards him...Since you don't actually have anyone telling you that "you're not allowed," it seems as though you're creating a situation where you can rebel against something.....
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Just my opinion...

Not to stereotype, but this seems like your typical "thing" with women*: always attracted to the "bad" boy...You have the nice, sweet guy who treats you well, yet you desire the dangerous, would screw you in an alleyway and leave you there afterwards, guy...I think this behavior is the sole reason guys act like jerks...The fact that you would cheat on or dump your boyfriend for this one-night stand speaks volumes about the way women think...
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*Not all women, of course...