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My girlfriend just dumped me for my colleague. We were supposed to get married next year. She met him through me at a barbeque, and it seems they have been seeing each other on and off for a year. We were together for 3 years. I feel so betrayed, and now she wants me to move out of our apartment so that he can move in. I feel like changing the locks and keeping them both out but I'm worried about the legal complications. I'm so angry with her...

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0%Let it go move on, remember karma

20%Refuse to leave the apt, you have as much right to it as she does

80%Find a compromise

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from JackOfHearts

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Sorry you're going through this. I've been badly dumped, and it of course it feels terrible. ..
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That said, changing the locks will only make things worse -- it could lead to a legal fight that you'll probably lose. ..
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If you actually don't care much about the apartment, don't hang onto it out of spite. Because your memories of her are tied up with that apartment, you're probably better off leaving it -- you might feel better if you make a fresh start in a new place. ..
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But if you really like the apartment and you'd like to live there without her, then stand your ground. Don't be petty, but make it clear that you want to stay there and she'll have to find an alternative...

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