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Cheating > from Akitosan (20-somethingmale)9 answers
My girlfriend made out with two guys today, one of whom I hate, and she refuses to talk to me, because of a comment I made that hurt her, really hurt her, two days ago. I said it in anger, not really meaning it, which I know is no excuse, but I have been apologizing constantly, showing her that I truly mean my sorrys. And she knows that I'm sincere about it. But, she said it decided to really hurt her today, so she decided to get back at me for it?..
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Help. What should I feel? What should I do? Is this right of her? Wrong? I don't know.....
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Oh, and she threatened to see if she could add another guy to it...
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from cobo (30-somethingfemale)
She sounds like not only a drama magnet, but a drama generator. I'd advise, like the others, to keep your distance and break it off with her. She sounds emotionally troubled if she's making out with people to punish you. That's not reasonable behavior. You didn't mean to hurt her...
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from Raven (20-somethingmale)
This whole scenario seems pretty ridiculous...You made a comment about some ex killing a kid that never existed in the first place and she snaps at you...I could understand if she actually got pregnant and had a miscarriage and you made that comment...In that case, you'd deserve a lot worse...However, since it didn't happen like that, I don't get why she snapped...You did apologize and it's, unfortunately, now her decision what to do...I would just back off and see what happens...Actually, my first instinct would be to ask her what the hell is wrong with her...But you're probably smarter than I am, so you should just not say anything...
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from queenbee (20-somethingfemale)
My poor guy, your girlfriend is one heck of a piece of drama...All you have honestly done is say a few meaningless hurtful things. This is normal when you're angry at another, and completely okay as long as you are truly sorry for it after. We're all human! ..
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What she did though violated the respect for you...Kissing TWO guys in ONE day that are not yourself is completely disrespectful to you in my opinion. If she is doing this out of revenge, well she took it to another level - IMMATURITY! ..
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Don't you think your girlfriend kissing two other guys is way too much revenge for your meaningless words?..
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I say break it off, you deserve way better than that immature girl. You did nothing wrong. It's her not you...
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from hugnkiss (30-somethingfemale)
Uhm, did you call her a whore? Is that why she's adding more and more guys? Or was your comment, "I hate you, I don't want to see you anymore?" I don't think she's your girlfriend. It doesn't matter if you said something in anger, you said it, and it upset her, and now she doesn't want to be with you -- she wants to be with other people. You said you were sorry. She doesn't care. ..
Did you guys break up? Because if not, it sounds like she'd like to...
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