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My wife's best friend is a guy she works with. She says she's not attracted to him but they spend a lot of time together. I can't help feeling insecure about him. Isnt it weird for a married woman to have a single man as a BFF? And yes, he's straight, I've met some of his girlfriends in the past...
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from Carlos (40-somethingmale)
He goes out with and sleeps with other women, if he and your wife were more than friends, I highly doubt she'd put up with having other women rubbed in her face constantly...
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As a pilot I can tell you that almost every single air accident was caused not by a single negative event but by a series of them. Have you any other reason to doubt the sincerity of their friendship ?..
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Insecurity stems from within, talking to her may help alleviate yours...
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from ScarlettO (30-somethingfemale)
Unusual, but not weird. I think we've made it seem weird because we're threatened by it (and I'm talking society as a whole, not you and I specifically, of course) and because it is unusual. We've demonized male-female friendships, or placed a veneer of suspicion over them, or desexualized them by assuming one of the two must be gay. But people are people. Let's give ourselves a little credit here, and imagine that maybe men and women could be friends, platonic friends, without having to drag sex into the mess. Trust your wife, unless she gives you concrete reasons not to. And give yourselves both a pat on the back for being progressive folks who defy convention...
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from racek125 (teenfemale)
you should really trust your wife, marriage should be built on trust. but if things seem to get weird and she starts acting like she is hiding something, you need to find out what she is not telling you. also if she is cheating, divorce should not be a solution, try talking to a marriage therapist first...
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from hugnkiss (30-somethingfemale)
Most of my BFF's are guy friends. And I think if I get married that will probably not change...
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You need to trust your wife. And if you don't, then you need to talk to her and figure out what deeper problems you have...
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