So kicking it and chilling are not fun?..
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You know the old saying: if you want something done right, do it yourself. Take the bull by the horns, or the steer by the balls, or the whatever by the whatever, and ask out the guys you like. There's no good reason why you should be waiting around for something that rarely happens...

from personal experience i can say that I have asked girls out. But there is one problem when meeting people in clubs and pubs - 99% of the time you may have had a few too many drinks and regret either giving or taking someones number...but that 1% could be a good un!..