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For once I met a cute guy in real life in a class we were both in, so I started chatting with him on facebook, and asked if he wanted to go to this art opening. He was like, "just so you know, not that I don't find you atttractive, but I have a girlfriend." So, that's fine. All of a sudden a few days later, he asked if I was going to be at another art opening. And I was like, what about the girlfriend? And he said, that's over now. So what do you think it means that he asked me to the opening? Is this a date, not a date, a wait-and-see type thing, or what?..
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from beachgirl (20-somethingfemale)
I think its a wait and see with a very good chance of it moving toward a more than friends type of thing...
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The fact that he told you about his girlfriend right upfront is great -- it means he's honest and wanted you to know not to expect anything...And now that he and his girlfriend have broken up, and he's asking you out, well.... that's a pretty good sign that he's interested...
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Just relax and see what happens...He said he's attracted to you, but since he just got our of a relationship, his head might be a mess...Or, if it wasn't that long of a relationship, or if the break up wasn't that bad, he could be ready to get into something with you...
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But it sounds like he's definitely interested...Good luck!..
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from bm9913 (teenfemale)
I think you should wait and see how the day goes...I do not think you shoudl ask him right off the bat because that could make things awkward...I do think he is interested in you though...The fact that he told you upfront abotu his girlfriend shows he does trust you and he thinks you are attractive which coudl be promising for you now that they are over...Go assuming it is as friends and hopefully as the day progresses you will get a better idea of where you two stand...
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from Carlos (40-somethingmale)
I'm the yang to Angie's yin.....
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How very convenient, perfect timing isn't. I'm going to be a dog on this one and tell you that I suspect that he didn't really end it with the gf, but he definitely wants a hookup with you, after which he may pick either you or her. Anyway to confirm the breakup ?..
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from rockrat (20-somethingmale)
I voted for "wait and see", but I think it's probably a date. ..
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Also, is it just a coincidence that things with his girlfriend ended now? It seems possible that he ended things with his girlfriend because he realized he wanted to see where things might lead with you...
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from hugnkiss (30-somethingfemale)
I think you should ask him. ..
I'm sure it wasn't really all that fine with you when he said, "Just so you know, I have a girlfriend." Did you guys end up going to the opening and having a great time? Maybe he broke up with her. Maybe he didn't have a girlfriend in the first place. I'd go to the art opening with him. And then see if he asks you out for a drink or kisses you at the end of the evening, or what happens. Or you can say, "So, is this a date?" No harm there...
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