Strangely enough it has never bothered me. Plus it pushes my buttons... the good ones...
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-Carlos..
I kissed a girl, and I liked it...

I know I know I'm not a guy but I thought maybe we girls should vote on this one too ... it might help narrow down some of the different views between the genders...
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Cheating is about the deception to me, so if there's foolin' around goin' on and the SO's not around or aware, regardless if it's with a girl or a guy, it's cheating...
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Angie..
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I'm the yin to Carlos' yang .....

Is it kissing a girl because they really truly like the girl and would rather be with the girl than you? Or, is it kissing a girl because the boyfriend asked her to?..
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I have a friend who is a lesbian, who tried very hard to be straight. And she got knocked up. And then she went back to girls, lost custody of the baby. Thought if she married a guy, she could get her baby back. (They met while hitting on the same girl.) The day after the wedding, he said, "No more girls." Because girls are what she prefers -- so, definitely is cheating...