That's a really tough one...I think forgiveness is possible, but it does not have to be immediate...I guess I tend to believe that everything happens for a reason and maybe someday it will make sense why that person caused you such pain...Or maybe it won't make sense, but you'll accept the apology...But the guilty party has to want that forgiveness...

I think that we all sometimes do stupid things that we wish we could change, but those make us who we are today, for better or worse...

Well, I'm a pretty forgiving person. I tend to get over things -- sometimes it takes a long time for me to get past something. But, it always happens with time...

I have a hard time staying mad at anyone - especially if they are remorseful and are nice. Even if they've done something really mean, I just tend to cool off and it doesn't make me feel pissed after awhile. Now when it comes to past boyfriends, if they've been jerks or fooled around on me - I don't stay enraged - I just fall out of love forever. I can like them as a friend or feel neutral, but I can never have that feeling of love again once I've been betrayed...

forgive and forget? not ever as easy as they sound. you can hold on to what ever your holding on to for as long as you want.....but it DOES pay a toll on..your heart...