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I am a college soph who just started dating a freshman and in one week we have hit it off amazingly and spent all free time together. the only prob is he is still tied to his mom's apron strings, he is always telling her everything about his classes and social life including of course me. how can i tell him, he doesnt' have to tell her EVERYTHING!? i dont' really need her to know so much about me at this point and it can't be good for him, right?..
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from ScarlettO (30-somethingfemale)
Aww, sweetie, he's a freshman. Remember? Remember what that's like? I think that saying he's tied to his mama's apron strings is a bit harsh. He's just (last week? last month?) left home for the first time ever, and of course he needs to touch base with Mommy and share his new experiences with the only woman he'll really, ever, truly love (OK, sorry about that, I was flashing forward thirteen years to when my son goes to college, and feeling a mite defensive). ..
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If you don't want him to divulge so much about you personally, you can ask him to keep mum (har! gosh, I crack myself up) about you and your relationship. But let him tell her all the details of his classes and his new experiences -- it'll taper off gradually, in good time, when neither of them needs such a close connection anymore...
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from bm9913 (teenfemale)
Just remember back to when you were a freshman...I knwo for sure I told my mom pretty much everything, and I am sure you told her a lot too...After a month or two it fades and his mom will have heard everything and he will not feel the need to keep telling...Just think of how cute it is taht he is so close with his mom!..
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from hugnkiss (30-somethingfemale)
Dude, I had a guy tell his mom the first time I SLEPT with him. Some guys like to talk to their moms way too much. If it makes you uncomfortable, ask him not to. But, maybe he just doesn't have a lot to say to his mom about other things...
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