Ask him "obviously you wouldn't mind if I set up some accounts on dating sites too then?"..
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While your at it, ask him if wouldn't mind proof-reading your profile, cuz u want to make sure you don't end up with another piece of s**t liar lol.....
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He's at stage one ... of what i see as SO many people's weak way of leaving a relationship...Visualize this if you can ... extended arms each going in separate directions, one hand barely still holding on to yours ... and the other hand, wide open, reaching out .....
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He likely doesn't have the balls to let go of your hand completely till he's got another one in his grasps...
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Breath, speak your mind and don't believe bs...
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Good Luck...
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Angie..

It is not OK and he is trying to meet people (like women to date). Sounds like it's time for a serious talk about where your relationship is going (or not going)...

That is not ok in any way...Why woudl he think ti was ok to see who is out there?..Why woudl he even need to know?..I mean he is in a relationship with you, he lives with you, and you have been together a great deal of time...Where woudl this ever be a good or acceptable idea?..

Well, my first reaction is "what an ass," to do something like that and lie about it. But then I think, most women would probably not have to ask if that was OK. so I am sensing that there's a part of you that thinks it might be "ok" - in other words, and forgive me if I speak bluntly here, part of you that's desperate enough to be his doormat? I mean, any woman with a healthy self-esteem would be like, "hell no that's not ok" and tell the jerk to get a facebook account if he really wants to "look for people he knows" or better yet, just dump his ass anyway and let him look all he wants. So if it's easier for YOU to be with someone who's still looking for a new girl, whether b/c you need to save face or you'd rather be with someone who doesn't want to be with you than to be with no one, then maybe this would be an acceptable situation for you. But I'd question why you even question whether this is OK, and try to find someone who appreciates you and doesn't have an itchy mouse finger...

Not OK. Dump this guy, then he can look for people he knows on dating sites all he wants. BTW, at age 33 he knows 18-year-old women?..Interesting story...