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My boyfriend dumped me for no reason at all! I mean one day he is telling me...
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from Angie (40-somethingfemale)
You guys didn't have a disagreement?..No looming issue unresolved?..He didn't just discover something that he might have misinterpreted and is lashing out with this reactions?..Did he ever give you this type of reaction before?..
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No to all of these ... then he's a coward...Gives you no explanation, just blows u off like that...He's not worth your time, effort or energy.....
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When, and if, you run into him, he calls or texts, smile and walk by or try not to respond...Which I realize is near is impossible cuz u want some kind of closure, i know, but if you have to respond ... keep it simple and to the point...
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"No no, really THANK YOU, for yet again, reconfirming to me WHO you really are."....
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Well I'd likely add a few choice words in there but that's just me lol...
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He's clearly shown you how he'll treat you so don't get all on a tangent trying to figure it out and correct him, just know that he's a piece of sh#t poor excuse for a man ... he's done you a favor and shown you...
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from kathyartist2008 (40-somethingfemale)
He sounds like he is on a power trip to manipulate you and hurt you. Sounds cruel. You may never know what it is. But for someone to be this awful and drop you without even a simple explanation was never worth it in the first place. There are people out there that just like hurting someone when they are at their most vulnerable. For him to be this cold, you have to know it is not you and somehow get over it after a while. He's the one who is really messed up. ..
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But...you may just hear from him in a few days and there just might be an explanation. But even if there is, this has got to be the meanest and most manipulative thing a person can do to another...Be very careful if he comes back into your life. That kind of behavior does not bode well...
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from Carlos (40-somethingmale)
A:)..Boys lie...
B:)..Boys will say anything to get laid...
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Clearly you were just a filler for him while he was biding his time for someone better to come along...He said what he needed to say to get you to do what he needed done, including the magic four letter word...
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He doesn't have the guts to tell you any of this.....
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Seen it too many times...
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-Carlos..
Angie gives me butterflies..
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from JackOfHearts (20-somethingmale)
He sounds like a terrible, awful, very selfish guy. ..
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My guess is that he got involved with someone else, which is why he dumped you so fast. I realize that's a painful thought, and I'm sorry to have to suggest it. ..
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But again: he truly is an awful person to handle it that way, so you really are better off without him...
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from cobo (30-somethingfemale)
This happened to me, and it is the worst. It's very hard to get closure when he won't talk to you and when you don't know why it's being closed in the first place. I'm sorry, if you really love this guy, it's going to take time to get over him. But trust me: you will, and he will live to regret his behavior. You don't want to be with a coward like him anyway...
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