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Oh, honey. This has to be rough, and I agree with Angie that you do seem remorseful. Having read your comment, I also feel that what you said wasn't that bad -- at least doesn't warrant such spiteful, malevolent behavior on her part. While it's hard for anyone to be hurt by the one they love, deliberately retaliating in order to hurt them back isn't very mature or very effective. It only compounds the problem. You're going to end up in an escalating arms race of hurtful behavior, and the resentment will only build proportionately...
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With all due respect, I'd break the cycle and call it quits with this one. Let her date someone else who will take her threats and punishment in stride. You're better than that, aren't you? You deserve better than that. Good luck to you, m'dear...

Okay, you were a jerk...You let your anger get the best of you...But I think you have proved to be very apologetic and mature in accepting responsibility...This girlfriend had the option to forgive or even end the relationship...But she chose vengeance...Not mature...Very ugly, in fact...She is using people to do you harm...That is despicable...I'd say move on and learn from your situation...Don't let anger steer your actions and never accept revenge as a way to wipe the slate clean...Never works...

I'm the yin to Carlos' yang .....
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Hmmm ... I'm rather curious ... what kind of comment a bf can make that results in the gf making out with two guys a few days later?..Her retaliation seems a little slutty to me, did your comment include some kind of confession of doing something similar?..
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If so, it surprises me that you still consider this ur gf?..
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Ok Angie get back to the problem, he's confused about what to do cuz he's sorry about whatever it is he said (not clear if he did anything tho)? ..
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So, how you should feel ... IS ...if you are in fact sorry ... remorseful.....
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Which it sounds, you are.....
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You have asked her to forgive you and now the balls in her court.....
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But I'll tell you that her actions in accepting or not accepting your apology, at this point, are very telling of WHO she is, so keep ur eyes open.....
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If you'd like to elaborate on what you said beforehand that lead to all this mess we might be more helpful with some guidance and direction...
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Good Luck Angie..

You gotta be grateful for things like this sometimes, they hurt, but they also make life feel more worth living...
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I'd personally drop the girl and get another one. You should never let a chick manipulate you, or misbehave, like this, even if you were a jerk (I understand you made amends for your "sins")...
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But if you really want to make things work, try this: check if in the long run, you can get past this. If you can, then it doesn't matter what you do, it will be alright...
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If you can't get past this incident, then it's never going to get better, only worse, so just drop it now, and that's it.... and who knows, maybe you can make up later, after it all went away, though i think it's better to just find a new chick in this case...
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This was NOT ACCEPTABLE BEHAVIOR from her. It's not that you can't forgive, it's just that she will continue to do this kind of things, if you don't show her you're the man...
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Be the man, whatever you chose...
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cheers dude ;)..

It's convoluted. I had ring stuck on my finger, she wanted to get it off. She was angry at me, wanted me to be in pain, and was making me tell her ex-bf (the one I hate) that it was probably going to have to get cut off, because it had been 'his ring'. I asked her why she was bringing him up, and she said "because it's his ring, it's Caleb's ring", Caleb being the kid she was going to have with the ex before the broke up, who was very real to her. I said, "But he killed Caleb" because she had told me that he said something that had killed Caleb for her. Apparently, she had said that not entirely meaning that, because she then got furiously hurt, and started attacking me. Several punches later, she's yelling that she hates me, and I respond with "Well, I love you, and that's all I've ever wanted to do. And it's obvious that you don't love me, which is all I've ever wanted." At that point we both broke down, and spent the rest of that day quietly consoling eachoth. That's what was said...