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Hi Guys,..

It seems so awkward to write here but i just want to know the general opinion......

I am having a girlfriend, whom i proposed 6 months back. At that time she told me that she is not a virgin so i said its ok as it is not going to make any difference to me. Then one day i came to know that she is having another affair at the same time with the same guy with whom she used to be in relation in her college life. So i asked her for an explanation. She told me a real truth that she had first sex at the age of 16 in school and then that guy left him and she went into the college. In college she met with another guy named "Jeff" then that guy proposed her and they were in relation for 4 years. In this four years they used to live together and they were having sex on daily basis and that is why she had gained so much weight. And now Jeff is in Australia. and as they she was not liking her she said yes to me. But she can not say no to Jeff also n that is why she continued the relation with him. So at that time she was double crossing me and jeff. I heard this n i was very very upset. But she convinced me for not doing this again...

After 2 months i again come to know that she is still in contact with jeff. and she is also planning to go to AUS for study. Then i told her to break contact with him or me. Then she said that she will never talk to Jeff again but she will go to AUS only for study as it is a matter of her career so i dint deny her. ..

Now she is there in australia. I dont like her attitude now. I feel she has changed. We are talking or chatting only 3 times a week. She says she doesnt have time. After that second incident i feel i have lost trust on her. I cant trust her full heartedly. I really dont know what to do. I dont feel like leaving her but if i am with her then there are so many questions coming in my mind about her. All in all i can say that i love her but i cant trust her. Is it possible? what should i do? What is the best decision i should take to handle this situation? Need some desparate help......

Thanks in advance.whom she used to be in relation in her college life. So i asked her for an explanation. She told me a real truth that she had first sex at the age of..

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