Here's that question

When the pain outweighs the pleasure it's time to go. I stuck it out for 25 years and in the end the problems were the same as the day the relationship was started. (Damn you brain chemistry!)..
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A very wise woman, Ann Landers, once wrote "Ask yourself "are you better off with him or without him?" I know it takes courage to leave, but trust me on this. When the boat starts sinking it's time to abandon ship...

Angie has yin and my yang hooked up!..
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Leave when it gets to be miserable and you get that knot in your stomach that tells you it's not going to get better...
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C...

I'm the yin to Carlos' yang .....
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You get this feeling in the pit of your stomach ... but that's not the first sign ... is it?....
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You've asked yourself this question before and you've talked yourself out of it, because there was something that was keeping you in.....
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So when you can no longer talk yourself back into it ... the love is gone...
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Angie..

Sometimes you don't want to hear the answer, but I often find that that gut feeling you have, even if it's quiet, is right. If you don't trust that feeling, let's say you do break it off and it turned out to be the wrong thing to do, you can still get back together... But if you are having your doubts, then it may be time to listen to them...

If your partner is not abusing you,someone else, or himself no one else can tell you when it's time to go. Before you make any decisons keep in mind 2 important things. 1. He will..NOT change. No matter how many times he says he will or how much you think you can make him. And... the things that just slightly anoy you now will drive you crazy 20 years down the road. 2. There's always a trade off...All new toys look great when they're in the box and haven't been played with yet. Most people end up trading one set of problems for another. The guy who buys you flowers probably doesn't do the dishes. So it really just boils down to - Are your problems big or has the newness just worn off...