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Big Crush > from chizukekilover (teenfemale)4 answers
So i send this guy who i had a huge crush on for 2 years now, a message telling him i like him and my number (this was like three weeks ago... i don't talk to him). The next day, i got two missed calls from an unknown number. i tried calling back but no answer. That whole week, he ignored me but the following week, he was following me everywhere in school (i'm in high school)...He graduated last Saturday. I had to go to the graduation ceremony thing because of orchestra. I saw him staring at me but after the ceremony, he walked right passed me screaming some girl's name. I don't get it...My friends are telling me to move on because he's a jerk for not asking me out. Should i take their advice? i'm really confused. one minute he likes me, the next he's ignoring me. what should i do? at this moment, i'm trying to get over him...
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from cheese (30-somethingmale)
Hello. Remember what you wrote in your question. He just graduated. Maybe a summer fling is possible. After that, if he is going to college forget about him. You will not be in the league of those more older and physically and mentally mature college girls. That's just the way it is. It's not that he's a jerk. He himself is naturally supposed to move on after highschool. Everybody does, and you will soon be on his side of the fence thinking of all those college guys and parties. Your young, never stress over a boy unless you believe in your heart that you will marry him. Good luck, and enjoy life...
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from justkto (20-somethingfemale)
I can completely appreciate your situation...I never approached my high school crush and ten years later I still regret never taking a shot. ..
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It sounds like you threw the pressure on this poor guy to make a move but guys don't respond well to pressure...Especially if you and he do not even speak to each other... Anyway, I commend your bravery but chances are you freaked the guy out a bit...Give him a chance to know you...Try to find a way to speak with him...Honestly, I think time will prove that you and he will be moving in separate directions, but at least you can try to connect with your crush...Maybe you'll find the closure I never did...Good luck!..
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from Raven (20-somethingmale)
If he's moving on (to college) you should, too...You made your move, he responded, now it's time to find someone new, someone who actually wants to be with you...
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from zandiver (20-somethingmale)
A lot of guys grow up teaching themselves how to date and act with woman because its unmanly to ask dad for advice and often dad has stupid advice. He probably does like you and does not know how to express it. He is probably not a bad guy but he needs to experience women and relationships before he gets it down right. You have the option of being one of the woman he practices on (which could go well but most likely wont) or you can date the guys who have it a little more together. Who you are and what you want at17 will be different at 18, and again will be different at 19, 20, 21, 22...Try but dont invest too much energy. Along the way the world works out..
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