Ok anything this ex says from this point forward should be taken "with a grain of salt" ... ..
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He doesn't have too much credibility in my eyes, based on the other questions you have posed, he obviously doesn't think you're just "ok" ... if he keeps calling you back for booty calls.....
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Don't let this guy affect your self-confidence and self-esteem any longer ... maybe you should put a bit more distance between you...And I'd stop re-evaluating your sex-life with this guy ... focus your enegy looking forward instead of backward ... it'll have a much more positive effect...
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Good Luck...
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Angie..
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I'm the yin to Carlos' yang .....

That is so uncool of him to say you're a bad lay. Forget him. (Btw, you're a teenager, how many people have you slept with?) Regardless, I'm sure you will get better and better at it the more you do later on when you're with a loving partner, not an evil, vindictive, mean, tasteless, tacky jerk like him. I mean, I have had some not-great sex, but I never ever told the person they were flat out bad in bed. That's so mean. And totally unnecessary. Forget about him. There will be a much better guy out there somewhere. Honestly, though, I don't remember having a raging sex drive as a teenage girl. For girls, we peak a little later. Like, now that I'm over 30 -- I understand why they say women over 30 can be easier. Because it's some weird biological hormonal need to breed. (I didn't get it before.)..

Angie got it right...I mean obviously you were better than "ok" if he is still coming back for more...Honestly, when people break up a lot of times they say things just to hurt the other...Do not take what he said seriously and just remember that if he had "lots of much better partners",..why is he coming to you for a booty call and not them?..

Wow, that guy sounds like a jerk. Good riddance! You've already got that going in your favor, you're no longer going out with a guy who either doesn't appreciate you or is using psychological tricks to control you. From now on, don't think of your sexuality in terms of him, think of it in terms of you! What you think is hot, what you would love to do or have done to you, and yes, what you'd like to improve at. Everybody can use improvement, and it's only going to get better after your teens anyway! And then work it, girl!..