The only way I know of how to making thoughts go away is thru resolve.....
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I'd say, in this situation, you're thoughts can be "put away" by doing one of two things :..
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1) fulfilling the fantasy..
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2) Being good with NOT fulfilling the fantasy..
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Since you've already proposed #1 and ur hubby isn't open to having an open relationship (lol)..you're not really left much of a choice, if you want to stay with him, but to do #2...
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But the problem is that considering you're 28 ... and u'r having these thoughts at this point in your marriage ... it's going to be a long haul...
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I'd try and talk to hubby again, explain to him that you want to talk about this cuz NOW while they are only fantasies.....
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But if he does concede and tells you, he too, fantasizes about sleeping with someone else and would like to do it .....be prepared for how you'll feel...So, if you open pandora's box, know of the possibilities...
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Angie..

hi dear ..
I must say that having such thoughts in the first place can piss off any man.You need to remain focused inyour relationship with your husband what ever you feellike doing sex wise let him know what ever new postions you feel you want to try out, discuss with him that is why you are bounded together as man and wife.Let goof this demonic feeling andnyour marriage will prosper.Please visit my blog at www.maritalroundtable.blogspot.com for more on how to make your marriage a bang...

How did you bring it up to him? Maybe you coudl wait a few months and propose a threesome or something. I understand how tough it'd be to go through life with only one sexual partner. maybe just remember how much you love each other...

Well, I can kind of understand why he got pissed. . . But I can also understand how you're kind of curious. ..
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Are you happy? Do you want to stay married? Or would you like to try being single and sleep with new guys?..

I say you should experience sex with others vicariously through viewing porn together. If you love your husband and your marriage, it is a great way to preserve things as they yet you can see what it would be like to have sex with someone else. You can close your eyes and imagine being with someone else...