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Awhile ago (actually a couple of years ago!) a stock clerk at the supermarket...
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from GothTart (20-somethingfemale)
I agree with Angie - he's totally intimidated. I mean, stock clerk vs. phD scientist? Not usually a matchup you see. That's NOT to discourage you at all, but I will bet that *he* is discouraged, and prolly thinks that a smart person like you would never go for a "loser" like him or someone with a menial job. So definitely ask him out, and try not to talk about your work too much unless he asks - but don't say anything like "oh you wouldn't be interested in my boring old work" or he'll think you think that he won't understand it. Just be yourself. Have fun!..
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from Angie (40-somethingfemale)
He may feel intimidated by what seems like ur "brainy" job vs. his...
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If u like him, ask him for coffee, flirt with him, let him see the great girl u are, difuse some of his preconceived notions of what he thinks a "Ph.D Scientist" ... see if there's any chemistry lol. ..
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Angie..
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I'm the yin to Carlos' yang .....
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from hugnkiss (30-somethingfemale)
That's weird that he won't look you in the eye anymore. Maybe he is insecure. Maybe he thinks you're smarter than him. Or, maybe he's a freakshow who doesn't believe in science -- and thereby felt he can no longer look at you, much less talk to you...
Sigh...
But a lot of guys don't care if a girl is more educated than he is...
It's a little weird that it took you 2 years to realize he was cute and that you might want to talk to him. I think you shouldn't really worry about why he's no longer talking to you. I might leave it alone. I mean, you weren't even friends with this guy. He was just someone at the grocery store. Maybe he had a dream that you were someone else, and when he realized you aren't a waitress/librarian/playmate/fill-in-fantasy here, he walked away...
Let him be. Find someone who isn't scared of your doctorate. You'll probably have more to say to each other...
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from cobo (30-somethingfemale)
I was gonna say the saaaame thing, but the other gals got to it first. He's intimidated. Maybe you can start up a convo with him about something non-intimidating that you are into. But I'm thinking he might not be confident enough to date you. It's still worth a try, but I'd be wary around guys with confidence problems. He might decide he's not good enough and break it off...
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