I was 24, and I was really into this older country singer. I told him I loved him when he signed my cd. He told me I looked lovable. After another concert -- on his 48th birthday my friends and I took him to a party. And then to another friends house. And then to my house. I went to the bathroom, and came out and he had taken his pants off (but left his t-shirt on over his big belly). And that's when I learned how gravity affects the male body as it ages. It isn't pretty. Then he started calling me at 3 and 4 a.m. and it got weird, so nothing ever happened...

When I was in my 20s, I fell for my French teacher in college and he was 30 years older than me! I was never before attracted to a man that much older - but there was something so interesting and sexy about him that I had sort of an involvement during that semester and spent a lot of time with him. But I found that he was dishonest and had a girlfriend (who was near my age!) so it went no where. I never again dated a man that much older than me...